YOUR LAST
FIRST DATE
STARTS HERE

YOUR LAST
FIRST DATE
STARTS HERE

The serious relationship service for people done with dating apps.
The serious relationship service for people done with dating apps.

%

in a serious relationship within 6 months
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Dating apps keep people single and make them miserable. We help you find love that lasts
Dating apps keep people single and make them miserable. We help you find love that lasts

We plan the date.

We vet the person.

All you do is arrive

We plan the date.

We vet the person.

All you do is arrive

We Get to
Know you

We get to know the real you — not just a few lines and pictures.

We Find
your Match

We use our in-depth understanding of you to set you up on blind dates with promising connections. We work behind the scenes to check your dealbreakers and ensure it’s a good match

We Curate
your Date

We find a time that works for both of you and book the venue —no back-and-forth messaging required. We even provide a little conversation menu to help you both connect.

We’re in
Your Corner

We have regular calls to help optimise your chances of finding love. Whether it’s breaking out of negative patterns, challenging limiting beliefs or managing your emotional energy. Our clients often love this part of our service

Built from the evidence of what drives connection - not addiction.

250+

Studies Reviewed

20K

Couples Studied

3K+

members on our database

We serve members worldwide, with strong communities in London, New York, San Francisco and Washington D.C.

Date Outcomes

72%

 in a relationship after 6 months

78%

 want to see their match again

84%

of dates feel like a good use of time

A New Approach to Finding Love

A New Approach to Finding Love

For Serious Relationships

We streamline the dating process so your energy goes toward people genuinely aligned with your values. Every match, every date, and every coaching session is designed to move you closer to a lasting relationship. We measure success by helping you find someone who truly fits, not by the number of dates you go on.

Pricing

Simple, Transparent Pricing

Community

Free

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Be on our database

Whilst we don't actively search for matches on your behalf, you may be presented with a potential connection if you align well with what a paying client is seeking.

Premium

£500

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Active matchmaking

For those who are relatively flexible and open-minded in what they're looking for

3 Blind Dates with promising connections

3 Calls focused on optimising for your dating success

Profile feedback and optimisation if you're using other platforms

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Custom

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Comprehensive service

For those with highly specific partner criteria, a comprehensive service to optimise your odds

3 Blind Dates with promising connections

5 calls to optimise success

Consultations with friends/family

For those who are relatively flexible and open-minded in what they're looking for

FAQ

01

How is Settled different from other dating apps?

How is Settled different from other dating apps?

How is Settled different from other dating apps?

02

How does it work?

How does it work?

How does it work?

03

Who is Settled for?

Who is Settled for?

Who is Settled for?

04

What if I'm burned out from dating?

What if I'm burned out from dating?

What if I'm burned out from dating?

05

How does your matching system work?

How does your matching system work?

How does your matching system work?

06

Why do you do blind dates?

Why do you do blind dates?

Why do you do blind dates?

07

Who founded Settled?

Who founded Settled?

Who founded Settled?

08

What kind of people are on your database?

What kind of people are on your database?

What kind of people are on your database?

09

What happens once I'm matched with someone?

What happens once I'm matched with someone?

What happens once I'm matched with someone?

10

Do you offer payment plans?

Do you offer payment plans?

Do you offer payment plans?

11

Why do you do calls along with dates?

Why do you do calls along with dates?

Why do you do calls along with dates?

12

Why do you do calls alongside dates?

Why do you do calls alongside dates?

Why do you do calls alongside dates?

13

Do you offer support once I'm in a relationship?

Do you offer support once I'm in a relationship?

Do you offer support once I'm in a relationship?

14

Do you use AI?

Do you use AI?

Do you use AI?

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